Change is the one thing many people are afraid of, yet it IS the most consistent thing in our lives. Most of us don’t notice the changes because they are either baby step changes or slow changes and we just let it happen to us. FACT: You will change (whether you like it or not) If you don’t think so just look back on the last month, year, 5 years, 10years…don’t stay there long..but just notice, oh so briefly, the CHANGES that have happened. Now come back to the present with me…Why not GUIDE your changes? How? change the way you think about things. Start right now to LISTEN to the “mind chatter” what are you saying to yourself? What “stories” are you telling yourself AND other people. Are they positive, uplifting stories? are they negative fearful or hateful stories? Are they stories like “oh whoa is me?” Are you caught up in someone else’s story? When I write story I mean you, you, and only you! YOU are the ONLY one YOU can control & change. YOU have the power to change YOU and no one else. If your stories or conversations are positive and uplifting GOOD FOR YOU! Keep it up. If your stories or conversations are of any other nature…turn it around…not happy with your boss? What are your bosses good qualities? Lost your job? Instead of moping around, start thinking of what you REALLY want to do…don’t come from a place of lack…come from a place of infinite possibilities!! Life is like a lemon so squeeze the daylights out of it!!! (In a good way of course) Have A Great Day!!
How many of us have said this as some sort of affirmation and/or maybe we said this to ourselves as we chatted with a potential client or boss!? I certainly raise my hand to all of the above. I am also experiencing a different perspective on my value and my perception on being paid. Sometimes our “payment” is not money. Sometimes that payment is in knowledge and experience. Are you starting to see where I am going?
I used to see patterns in how my clients would pay me and now I realize that I created those patterns and was getting exactly what I was looking at and “expecting”. It was not a conscious expectation, it was a comfort in my level of worthiness and confidence, or should I say an uncomfortable comfortableness! I get to make the choices in my life about how and what I get paid and the value that I place on me.(Key word is CHOICE)
I too, am constantly shifting and expanding on an amazing journey of self awareness and I would like you to join me!
I have recently met a gentleman by the name of Soul Dancer (YES, his real name) and he wrote a book titled “Pay Me What I Am Worth”, it IS about all of the above and it is a book of expansion, of getting to know your self worth. I AM on a journey with several other folks, to not only expand our confidence, it is to truly reach out and BE the examples so others can say, Me too, Me too!! I am placing a link to a “Reality Radio” Series. I am coming in on the 4th show, please feel free to listen in, send feedback, if not to me, to Soul.
Remember that “this life is YOUR journey, be happy and confident in where you are and watch where it takes you!”
If you are still looking externally for your answers … the answers are within you. The solutions are truly in each of use… We are self contained on this journey!
Even when you think you may be alone, you are not.
You are much more than you think you are and more powerful than you probably give yourself credit. (Do YOU know that you are soooo WORTHY?)
You must focus on what you want in a way that just the thought brings you happiness and ONLY in that happiness you can receive what you want. You can not receive the things you say you want in a state of anger or sadness, for only in that state you create MORE of what you do not want.
“life is a journey, be happy where you are and watch where it takes you!” In Joy! Anna
When you understand the delay of manifestation, you understand that HOW you FEEL NOW, shows up later, there IS a time delay of a moment, a day, a week, a month, a year. The year 2012 is about change, it is about shifting AND it IS the manifestation of what is being THOUGHT NOW or last week, last year on a collective consciousness level, every physical human being has a part in what IS happening and “what will BE happening”. Ask yourself, how do I FEEL right now? Now take this emotion and project it over the course of a week, a month, a year. IF you “stay” in your current emotional state, this IS what you will get “magnified” in your future! YOU LIVE YOUR FUTURE NOW! You have the ability to changeyour future NOW! We (yes, you too) are going through an energetic shift that is effecting everything around us, everything in the world, it IS global it is beyond global it is universal, when we can understand this, feel this and realize that it is for our greater good and well being and then truly get excited about the changes, it is then that this awareness becomes MORE! Energetically more and then physically more.
Each individual is energy that is vibrating at a different speed and frequency and that will determine when things show up in your reality. When understanding the “time delay” there is always a gap in between the place that you are and the place that you want to be and in that gap you must become aware of what you are thinking. Are you thinking “it will never show up? or when will “it” show up? These are actually resistant thoughts and these thoughts will push “it” away.
The questions that come up: How do I deal with the fears and stresses, the “stuff” of everyday life, how do I “get what I want” and move through this shift with ease and grace?First we must be heart centered, in religion we call this Christ consciousness, in basic terms, look at life and EVERYTHING and EVERYONE around you with love, true unconditional love. This very act creates a peacefulness and calmness that allows you to move through contrast without fear, without anger, without hatred and it is a process of forward movement. When you see through “the eyes” of unconditional love, you release judgements, fear, frustration, anxiety and you allow and in this allowing you actually let “the stuff” flow through you and not get “stuck” in you. I call this the “mucky muck”. Basically “don’t get stuck in the mucky muck”!
Do I negate all of my feelings such as anger frustrations, fear and anxiety?No, not exactly, as we have these emotions for a very good reason. They are emotions to let us know that we are not going in the direction of peace and happiness which are “higher vibrations” and these “negative” emotions are to be experienced, as with all contrast, without these “negative” emotions, you would not know the opposite emotions such as joy and happiness, peace, etc. The idea is not to stay in the “contrasty” emotion for a long period of time, learn to pivot how you feel. An example would be when you get frustrated or angry, become aware of the frustration or anger (the not FEELing so good), acknowledge it and then move beyond it, (ask yourself how the emotions serves you)this is a very simple act in itself once you realize that the frustration is just “you” telling you to “pay attention” go in the other direction, make a change. This is growth and expansion and as you actually acknowledge the “contrast”, or as we humans say “negative” emotions, you become more aware of the “not so FEEL good” place and you actually can shift or pivot away from the contrast quicker. We have a variety of emotions (feelings) they are here to serve you, to help you in living a wonderful joyous life. Will there be sadness, anger, frustration? Yes, AND you are becoming MORE AWARE when these emotions “show up” AND you can change how you feel. When you understand this you allow and then let go, remember, your emotions serve you, you do not serve your emotions. What is your 2012 going to look like? What is you tomorrow going to look like? Are you going to go there in fear? in sadness? in not knowing? or do you CHOOSE to go there in happiness? Love? Joy? Peace? FEEL it today! KNOW it today! LOVE it today! You will be so amazed at how YOU show up! You are eternally loved!
“where ever you go, there you are” “be happy where you are and watch where it takes you!”
You start from where you are right now! It is all you have. You may want some “thing” else AND as you long for “it” you only push it away for all you are focusing on is “the lack” of this thing. In life there is wellness and the lack of wellness, prosperity and the lack of prosperity, joyfulness and the lack of joyfulness etc. you get the picture… AND which one are you LOOKING at? Which one are you focusing on? WHAT YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS! FEELING the wellness brings you more of that, FEELING the lack of wellness (sickness) only brings you more of that… FEELING the prosperity brings you more of that, FEELING the lack of prosperity (being broke..the “I can’t afford syndrome”) only brings you more of that… FEELING the joyfulness brings you more of that, FEELING the lack of joyfulness (sadness, depression etc.) only brings you more of that… How do you FEEL? The idea is to always look for the “better feeling” thought… don’t look at the problem, look at THE SOLUTION, LOVE the solution! Love your self!! You ARE a magnet and LIKE attracts LIKE… what are you attracting? Wanna change it? Start Here…
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